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The Four Cornerstones

  • Dec 5, 2024
  • 2 min read

CENTERING. THANKING. FORGIVING. CREATING.


Meditation – noun; the deliberate creation and performance of actions of body, speech, and mind that simultaneously benefit self and other. also referred to as: "familiarization"


Authentic meditation begins with centering ourselves – learning to create peace and rest in body, speech, and mind. This initial peace creates distance from our compulsory response-habits. In this space, we are free to re-evaluate how we would like to use the resources of body, speech, and mind.


Centering


Centering is not an end in itself. Rather, centering and harmonizing body, speech, and mind is the necessary prerequisite for being able to dedicate and offer ourselves to others, which ultimately produces the profound sense of purpose we seek to consistently experience.


​The four cornerstones represent four stages of practice. We progress from centering to creating through the gateways of thanking and forgiving, which represent the systematic expansion of our identity. Each stage serves as the foundation for the next.


Thanking


The more centered we become, the more capable we become of generating sincere expressions of gratitude. The more we cultivate thanking, the more naturally we extend our hearts out to others and experience the peace and purpose of doing so.


Forgiving


The more we are able to extend our hearts out to others, the more we also are naturally willing to be forgiving of ourselves and others. The ability to cultivate forgiveness represents the dissolution of any lingering resentment or fear that we habitually and subliminally carry into our interactions and the world.


Creating


Being able to face the world openly, joyfully, and fearlessly is the true state of creativity we all long to experience. Creating means being courageous enough to continuously venture into previously uncharted territories — to pioneer and to light the way for others.

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Homage to Maitreya

Why do I mistake us myself,

When your entire summit’s inside me,

Engineering miracles all around?

Just like your identity belongs,

Inherent within the bliss,

The love of all time and light,

Once we hung out and you killed me,

Saying, “Rock this triangle and throne!”

With explosions of gold old as I Am,

While humbling me around eternity,

Throughout all awe with you, as you,

I was still at home together everywhere,

But being here and there already,

Who moves, has, or plays with friends,

Or helps them know this happy marriage?

As one, who for fun’s sake to kiss?

For one thing, finally takes its time,

So leave forever peace to all the rest,

There’s nothing more forgotten or found,

Cause invitations extend here and wide,

Tickets to ride the light that’s always on.

The Meaning of Maitreya

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Foundations exist in order to house that which is alive. That is, we do not live in foundations but upon them. Similarly, we are not born into our fullness by leveling ground and setting concrete endlessly. The game must be played, and the conception of oneself as a mere practitioner does simply limit the beauty and magnificence indwelling in each. Champions are not made in practice but in contest, and the brave who will decide to act out and embody the transcendent will reap the benefits of doing so and attain. Vigor is the hallmark of heroes, but those averse to intensity remain underdeveloped on account of misidentifying who it is that actually suffers when looking out into the world. It is not others whom we aim to uplift or protect but parts of ourselves.

two

None can say and stand in truth, “This is mine alone.” Everything we are – everything we can aspire to or feel we possess – has as its basis and cause the preexistence or contribution of something or someone else. Our bodies are not our own, they belong to the earth and are fed and watered by the efforts of others. Our minds are not our own, they belong to the sky and are fed and watered by the thoughts of others. We eat and think only what is available to eat and think. And in choosing, we empower and proliferate all the lives whose values have been similar. In this way, companies and brands and messages and lifestyles gain in prominence, lose potency, or fade into obscurity. We become what we actively support or passively allow and fail to rectify.

three

Each decision we make has as its motive force the desire to be most alive. We want to do what feels best, and what feels best is to give what is true. Health, clarity, and inspiration are gifts from the wise. This statement is validated by our own experience of having been recipients of such, for everything is made brighter by their entrance into our lives. The byproducts of wisdom are neither arbitrary nor relative, but tangible and universally desirable. In other words, we want to be wise. But in prioritizing comfort, we forfeit our reasons to unfold and unleash our own heroic essence, for the most inspiring action is that most intimate with pain, and who neither wishes nor is able to perform the task cannot simultaneously be called by that name.

"I slept and dreamt that life was joy.
I awoke and saw that life was service.
I acted and behold, service was joy."

—RABINDRANATH TAGORE

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